Self-Appreciation is the key to experiencing greater love, acceptance, and self-esteem. Check out nine ways you can start appreciating yourself today!
This post is all about how you can practice Self-Appreciation.
Self-Appreciation is a popular term you’ve likely heard of, but what does it actually mean? According to Merriam-Webster, appreciation means a feeling or expression of admiration, approval, or gratitude. Appreciation directed towards one’s self is the art of practicing self-appreciation.
So, how many of us are practicing feelings of acceptance, trust, and love for ourselves? I don’t have a specific answer to that question, but sometimes it feels easier to see qualities we love in someone else than acknowledging attributes in ourselves. And no, seeing the good in YOU isn’t a bad thing. It’s quite the opposite!
Harvard Business Review reported the impact of negative emotions on an individual, and more specifically, the feelings of being devalued are incredibly toxic. Studies show by exercising self-appreciation, you will begin to see positive shifts in yourself and the world around you. With less criticism and more self-love, you’ll start to view yourself and the environment you live in through a different lens—a lens of value and appreciation.
As you continue to practice self-appreciation, your relationships with others will also improve because when you absolve judgment and self-deprecating thoughts, only then are you truly free to appreciate the value in someone else.
So, do yourself a favor. Let go of the negative self-talk, and start recognizing your value in this world by utilizing these nine suggestions today!
Self-Appreciation: 9 Ways To Appreciate Yourself More
How Do You Appreciate Yourself More?
Before we jump into the nine ideas, it’s essential to recognize that you are worthy of self-appreciation. I know we get busy in life caring for others and putting others’ needs before our own. It’s normal and natural. But acknowledging you are worthy of self-appreciation is taking the first step.
A Self-Appreciation Quote To Remember:
“I am the measurer of my worthy, and I say I am worthy.” – Goodtherapy.org
1. Don’t Take Your Life For Granted
An Underrated Self-Appreciation Message.
We all take life for granted from time to time. It’s part of being human, so don’t be hard on yourself.
But the effect of consciously appreciating your life is crucial for experiencing a healthy outlook and overcoming obstacles. When you bask in appreciation for all your mind and body allow you to do, you’ll begin to transform negative beliefs about yourself. Instead of focusing on what’s wrong with your life or body, you’ll embrace the positive aspects.
And the more you do this, the more likely you are to practice self-care routines and self-love, which increases self-esteem. So, every day wake up grateful and appreciative for your life.
Most importantly, remember your life has value. No matter what’s happened in the past or what someone else has said or thinks, you deserve to give yourself that recognition. It’s an honor to live here on planet earth, so don’t take a second of it for granted.
2. Stop Second Guessing Yourself
A Powerful Example Of Self-Appreciation.
Trusting yourself and your ability to make good decisions is an excellent way to honor and appreciate yourself. When we are constantly second-guessing ourselves, our confidence takes a huge hit. EVERY SINGLE TIME.
Now, I’m not saying mistakes won’t be made. Mistakes are a normal part of life and often hand us the most significant lessons.
But, what I am saying is that learning to trust ourselves, regardless of the outcome, is one of the most powerful ways we can practice self-appreciation. Confident business entrepreneurs are not afraid to trust their gut. They know how to make decisions and then execute those decisions.
Is every decision perfect? NO. Nothing in life or business is perfect. But trusting your journey and your ability to make decisions for yourself is a crucial step in self-appreciation, and it’s so often overlooked.
So, be the entrepreneur of your own life and trust your journey and ability to make wise decisions. And NEVER give that power away to someone else. This is YOUR life.
3. Reward Yourself
A Self-Appreciation Quote To Remember:
“When you undervalue what you do, the world will undervalue who you are.” – Oprah Winfrey
Life should ALWAYS feel rewarding! But what does rewarding yourself have to do with self-appreciation? EVERYTHING.
Value yourself by gifting yourself with something. It doesn’t have to be a literal gift (but it can be). Taking a salt bath, walking in nature, and meditating are great forms of self-appreciation rewards.
Giving yourself quiet time is a way to reconnect with your values and who you are. So, try rewarding yourself at least once a week with something you LOVE and see what happens.
Maybe, just maybe, rewarding yourself leads to a new business idea or spark in your imagination. The possibilities are endless once you start acknowledging your value and recognizing it with a reward. Essentially, it’s like you’re shouting to the universe, “I’m here. I’m worthy. I matter.”
4. Stop Criticizing Yourself
Speak No Evil, Hear No Evil, And See No Evil Is The Greatest Form Of Self-Appreciation.
Self-judgment and criticism are the worst things we could practice toward ourselves and others. There’s NO VALUE in it, and the effects damage our physical and mental health.
When you stop criticizing yourself, you’ll begin to see yourself more positively, and you won’t judge others so harshly.
You know those people (we all know at least one) who say things like, “oh, he or she only has such and such because of their parents, or she’s not that successful or pretty.” Or whatever else it is, they sit around and say.
People who make harsh and critical statements like that lack self-esteem. In a nutshell, they’re insecure, and you should NEVER subject yourself to that behavior.
Once you start viewing yourself positively and let go of self-criticism, people like that won’t even roam in your vicinity because you’ll be flying so high on the GOOD life. It’s your job to build yourself up. You get back what you put out in the world. And that starts with YOU and how YOU appreciate yourself.
5. Allow Yourself To Receive Appreciation
Make It A Self-Appreciation Day.
Are you good at receiving compliments? If so, that’s a great form of self-appreciation because it means you see your value and are not surprised or embarrassed when someone acknowledges you.
Also, it’s encouraging to hear praise from others. While we should always practice being our biggest cheerleader, research shows that receiving positive feedback motivates us to do better. Even studies in the workplace show that employees who receive positive feedback are more confident and do better work.
So, remember to allow yourself to receive appreciation from others but also give appreciation to others. Being a cheerleader for someone else is an excellent form of giving back and often acts as a positive domino effect.
6. Write A Self-Appreciation Letter
Self-Appreciation Post To Yourself.
Writing is a powerful way to honor yourself, heal trauma, and release negative feelings. Do you feel comfortable writing a letter to yourself? Just try it. This can be a simple process that doesn’t have to take long.
For Example:
Dear XOXO,
I know this week was a tough one, but you handled it with a lot of grace. Keep going, and don’t give up. I see you. I love you. And I thank you. P.S. Let’s do something FUN this weekend!
Love,
Me
7. Celebrate Old & New Accomplishments
Self-Celebration And Gratitude Are Powerful.
Don’t forget any of your accomplishments, no matter how long ago they were.
And don’t let anyone underestimate who you are and what you’ve achieved. You owe it to yourself to celebrate those accomplishments (old and new) and how far you’ve come on your journey.
Also, it would be best if you didn’t EVER sit around thinking you haven’t accomplished much. That is the worst thing you could do, and I guarantee there are at least 30 people you’ve come in contact with in your life that would state otherwise.
We don’t always know the powerful effects we have on others. So, instead of beating up on yourself, celebrate YOU. Be mindful, thankful, and appreciative of all of your accomplishments.
WARNING SIGN: If anyone has ever tried to belittle one of your accomplishments, run the other way. Confident and successful people surround themselves with others who celebrate their wins.
8. Your Word Is Your Wand
Appreciate Yourself By Walking Your Talk.
When we fail to match our talk with action, we lose credibility and trust in ourselves. Appreciate yourself and others by saying what you mean and meaning what you say. If you say you’re going to do something, then DO IT.
Stop making false promises to yourself. Our words and actions have potent effects on our well-being and our relationships with others. When you’re impeccable with your word, the right actions follow. And good karma too.
The same goes for lying and manipulation, which studies show have destructive effects on our physical and mental health. No matter how you justify what you’re doing or what someone else is doing, there are ramifications.
So, always appreciate yourself enough to be impeccable with your words and actions.
A Self-Appreciation Quote To Remember:
“Your word is your wand.” – Florence Scovel Schinn
9. Self-Compassion Is Appreciation
Fuel Yourself With Compassion.
Having compassion for ourselves is imperative. Often we judge how we feel, but if we could turn that judgment into self-compassion, we could likely experience resolutions to our inner conflicts.
The Dalai Lama says having compassion for ourselves gives us inner strength and self-confidence, which reduces fear and keeps our minds calm.
Instead of ignoring your pain, be warm and gentle with yourself. Acknowledge the difficulty in your problem and how you’re feeling. Ask yourself, “How can I comfort myself right now?”
Quick Tips For Self-Appreciation
Understand The Value In Self-Appreciation
This article will help with that one!
Practice Gratitude By Simply Being Grateful
Check out here why gratitude is so powerful.
Self-Awareness
How well are you aware of your daily thoughts and actions?
Self-Acceptance
Love and accept every part of yourself!
Positive Self-Talk
Miracles happen when you talk kindly to yourself. So, fill your mind with GOODNESS all day, every day.
Read Inspirational Quotes And Listen To Positive/Funny Podcasts
I like to do this when I’m getting ready in the morning!
Do Yoga
Yoga is a GREAT stress reliever and a GREAT workout.
Watch Fun Movies
Again, fill your mind with beautiful things and watch your outer world transform. Watching uplifting movies is an excellent way to do this.
Raise Your Self-Esteem With Self-Appreciation
When you start acknowledging yourself, your self-esteem increases too!
Step Out Of Negative Thinking
There is ZERO value in negative thinking, so STOP IT.
Final Thoughts On Self-Appreciation
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